💍 Your “Get Legally Married in NZ” Checklist


1. Check you’re good to go!

You’re both 18+ (or 16–17 with parental consent).

• Not already married or in a civil union.

• Not closely related by birth, marriage, or adoption.


2. Apply for your Marriage Licence

• Complete a Notice of Intended Marriage form.

• Sign it in front of a Registrar or authorised person.

Pay the fee (around $150 NZD).

• Wait at least 3 days — your licence is valid for 3 months.


3. Choose your Celebrant

• Pick an approved registered celebrant.


4. Make sure you have two witnesses

• Anyone can witness — they just need to understand what’s happening.

• Friends, family, or even helpful strangers!


5. Say “I do” and sign the papers!

• You, your partner, your celebrant, and both witnesses sign the licence during your ceremony.


6. Get your official Marriage Certificate

• After you’re hitched, apply for your marriage certificate — this is your legal proof you’re married!